Why EmpowerHER exists

An EmpowerHER conversation in progress

EmpowerHER grew out of real conversations — the kind that happen when women sit down together and actually talk.

Over the years, I kept finding myself in rooms where the most interesting ideas came not from the stage, but from the person sitting next to me. I noticed how rarely those rooms brought together women from genuinely different worlds: founders beside investors, artists beside scientists, women early in their careers beside those who had already built and sold businesses.

I started to think about the table you want to find at an event — not the head table, not the table of people who already know each other, but table number three. The one where someone says something that changes how you think, where an introduction turns into a collaboration, and where you leave feeling more connected than when you arrived.

Those conversations made me believe that the right mix of people is more valuable than the right number of people. When women from different circles, professions and perspectives come together with openness, everyone learns something they would not have found in their own network.

Too often, belonging is tied to what you do, who you know or where you went. I wanted a different kind of space: one where your title, background or existing network do not determine whether you have a voice. A place where you can show up as you are, ask the questions you really have, and learn from women whose paths look nothing like yours.

That is the idea behind EmpowerHER. A community built around conversation, exchange and the simple belief that we are better — more curious, more confident, more capable — when we figure things out together.

Around our table

The table only works if we all take responsibility for what we bring to it.

  1. 01

    Come as you are

    You do not need to perform, prove or have everything figured out. Show up honestly and do not be afraid to grow, change or show up differently as your journey evolves.

  2. 02

    Give and gain

    EmpowerHER is built around exchange. Come thinking not only about what you might receive, but what knowledge, experience, introductions or support you can offer someone else.

  3. 03

    Make space

    Look around the table. Ask whose voice has not been heard, who you can bring into the conversation and which door you might be able to open for another woman.

  4. 04

    Respect difference

    Different experiences, backgrounds, ambitions and perspectives make the table stronger. Bring curiosity, openness and respect.

  5. 05

    Create belonging

    Community and belonging are foundational to EmpowerHER. We want women to feel welcomed, supported and able to ask for help — and equally willing to offer it.

Vanesa Pazos, founder of EmpowerHER

Vanesa Pazos

Founder, EmpowerHER · Founder, NoBa

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Why I created EmpowerHER

EmpowerHER is personal to me because it represents far more than professional success. It grew from my belief that no woman should have to navigate her ambitions, challenges or moments of self-doubt alone. We all need people who recognise our potential, remind us of our worth and encourage us to step forward, even before we feel completely ready.

I wanted to create the kind of community I believe women deserve: warm, welcoming and free from judgement or competition. A place where we can share the reality behind our journeys, not only the polished achievements, and feel supported through every stage of becoming who we want to be.

That is why EmpowerHER exists. It is an extension of who I am, what I value and the difference I hope to make: helping women feel seen, connected and more confident in what is possible for them.

Want to connect?

I’m always happy to hear from women interested in EmpowerHER. If you’d like to connect, reach out to me on LinkedIn.

If you’d like a little more time to talk, whether about EmpowerHER, your own journey or simply something you’d value another perspective on, you can also book a longer conversation with me.

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What people are saying

There’s a real openness — no egos, no sense of having to prove yourself. Just interesting women connecting and learning from one another.

Lorraine

I felt seen, laughed and was moved by so many stories. Nobody cared what you did or who you knew — it was about meeting you where you were.

Tracy

EmpowerHER felt real, not fluffy — focused on the practicalities of how women can actually support each other.

Martha

I’ve been in many rooms, but not one where almost every person stayed to the end. The conversations were deep, inquisitive and open.

Katie

I laughed, cried, shared stories and left with a whole load of new, inspiring connections.

Lorna

Beyond the friendships, it’s given me the confidence and support to start investing in early-stage businesses.

Pauline

There’s an incredible energy when women show up not just for themselves, but to genuinely support one another. That’s what makes EmpowerHER so powerful.

Nicky

The women, the values, the vision — when that alignment is instant, the decision is easy. That’s EmpowerHER for me.

Alice

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